Self-Confidence may consist of many elements:
Appearance, Appearance of other people, Verbal expressions, Non-verbal expressions, Intelligence, Career, Graduation, Creativity and Health.
The adults have another perception of the reality than small children. Small children live and awaken each day to a new day of adventure.
The adults have a preoccupied perception of the day.
Self-esteem is your right to exist.
If you are in doubt about your right to exist in this world it is a fundamental matter and is like the base of your house.
If you have doubt about your right to exist, you will experience fear.
Some people are feeling that they do not have the right to exist in this world and it does not matter whatever this person has built in the fundament of confidence, because the self-esteem is what the confidence has to rely on.
The basic right to exist has to come within you.
This right to exist has each person to deal with personally.
If a person does not deal with self-esteem, you become fragile or weak.
All the other people can see whether there are holes in your self-esteem base.
If you build your whole house on for example your job as your self-esteem base and you lose your job your base cracks.
When self-confidence and your self-esteem base are in conformity that means between your house and your base, you are able to increase the size of your house gradually.
The best way to build your house of self-esteem and self-confidence is to build your house based on a spiritual approach to life.
This would include all.
The spiritual road will give you depth and width.
This will enable you to include much more in your life plan or personal development plan and will take care of your personal growth.It will also help you to get unstuck and open up for new
plans and goals for complete joy and happiness.
The spiritual aspect or mindset will give access to your being, the now, stillness, your essence where all creative images are coming from and later manifested in your life.
You will build your house of self-esteem and self-confidence without hiding something.
There is no reason to hide anything.
Why to be the one you are and nobody else?
When you are honest to yourself, you have self-esteem.
Then you have the right to be as you are.
Then you have total acceptance of who you are in all situations and in all moods.
If you are accepting yourself just as you are, everything is all right. If you for example are shy then accept that you are so and do not resist it. Accept yourself even in a certain situation of moods.
Is it okay to be self-centered?
It is okay to look after yourself.
It is okay to become a whole person in your personal development.
When you do no harm other people and when you are integrating your own projections.
Your self-esteem is keeping you going in a situation of stress.
When you are love then you are growing, if you will allow it to grow within you.